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When you join an online dating service or match making site, you are looking for a girl or a guy that you can like… even come to love.  That girl is looking for a guy that SHE can like or even love.  What you are not looking for is a girl who would like your best friend or your idea of what the perfect guy looks like or talks like or thinks like.  So, in order to find the right girl for you…and she IS out there…you need to be completely honest with yourself about yourself when writing the online profile, during the dating process and beyond.

The best way to begin writing your profile is to carefully analyze your past relationship(s).  What was wrong?  What was right?  What things really made you like the last girl?  Which didn’t?  Do not assume that just because you hated that your last girl friend was so totally self-involved that she could not see anything else, you’ll be able to overlook that quality this time. You won’t. 

  If you aren’t 6’3” with a six-pack to be proud of, don’t claim to be.  If you are a bar tender, don’t claim to be a Doctor with a six figure income. If you are forty going on fifty, do not pretend to be thirty something.

Always remember, your main goal here is to find a girl who will like you exactly like you are. If you have written lies in your profile, the first face-to-face meeting will remove all her doubt that you are a liar…and probably a cheat, as well.  

Lastly, once you have found a girl that you believe can be the one for you, for goodness sakes, request for the cancellation of your membership to the online dating service.  After all, you know and she knows that online dating services are intended for those who are looking… not those who have found or been found.