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Maybe by now, you have joined a couple of dating services and have written a killer profile.  You have uploaded good pictures and now you are going to chat with a contact.  What now?  How do you start separating those who have real potential and those who don’t have any potential at all?  You need to find out something about who this strange woman really is and not just who she wants you to believe she is.  It would be nice if women wore labels like “Gold Digger” or “Daddy’s girl”….but they don’t so it’s up to you to find these things out and you can’t just ask direct questions.  You need to know what blunders you can avoid making and how to have an impact on this lady if you decide to do that. 

At the time you are past the initial small talk, ask her, “What are the biggest mistakes guys make when dating online?”  Listen attentively to her answers.  She is going to tell you a lot about herself and her own perception on men in general. 

Next is to ask her, “What do she really think about online dating or meeting online?”  Now she will tell you if she has had any bad experiences dating online which might help you to avoid making the same things wrong. 

Now for the all-important one…. ”What caused the break up in your last relationship?”  If she puts all the blame on the guy, you should probably move on to the next prospect.  If she takes all the blame herself, you should probably do the same.  If she says the breakup was by mutual consent or that the relationship just wasn’t right for either of them, you’ve heard the right answer.  Move forward but always with caution.

Learning to ask the right questions will give you an insight and make you more self-assured when you meet with a lady for the first time.